What is the driving force that gets you out of bed in the morning, that motivates you to carry on? Is it family, job/career, image, or maybe all the above. If most of us were honest with ourselves, the inherent need to be wanted, loved, adored, and accepted by others is probably near the top of the list. I know this is true for myself and see no harm in admitting it. For once you can truly be honest with yourself about your inequalities, you will find peace with yourself through the process and others will want to be a part of that peace.
With HONESTY comes RESPECT, with RESPECT comes LOVE, with LOVE comes JOY, with JOY comes LAUGHTER, with LAUGHTER comes PEACE.